Got this question the other day in my private FB messages:
Hey man, I’m a sub. I’ve seen you help people who send you dilemmas and was wondering if you’d give your two cents on this…I’m 21 and as close to a virgin as I’d like, only had sex once at 19 and can’t remember a thing. I’m having extreme difficulty connecting with women and don’t meet many new ones…those I do I end up just friends. I’m not the best looking guy and have little confidence. I can only work on these things but I’m not into the idea of one night stands, I’m joining the military to try and work through my confidence and life issues but I’m getting increasingly concerned about my lack of experience with women and it’s only getting worse as time goes on. I also feel I get used by both friends and women and that I’m not really valued by either. What would be your opinion on what my next steps would be? Thanks.
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Who cares if your virgin or not dance to your own beat.
Men DON'T HAVE A VIRGINITY to lose to begin with. Women have only one, so anal, oral, boob and hand jobs don't count ether. Lack of experience is not virginity. Stop using this word the wrong way and maybe this word will become significant again.
I suspect he was a virgin and was covering for himself, but it doesn't matter… build yourself, watch some porn or study sex, workout, put all that negative energy into saying fuck this I'm going to build even if it kills me. And check on yourself monthly, not daily, every day is better self day! I was a virgin until 27, idgaf, it was intentional for the most part but ladies aren't hating it.. they love it!
I got the major runaround by females my same age from my teens to mid 20s. I always dated younger, who treated me much better. From age 26 and beyond, I've been guilty of rubbing it in the face of women my own age when I dated a girl more than 5 years younger. I know it hurts them as much as the hurt I felt being ignored by women in their prime years (but not a man's prime years).
Im 37 and i only had sex with one landwhale 13 years ago.
I dont even care… Got the 6 6 6 down….
31 year old Muslim American virgin until last year. I was too busy attending a T10 MBA and undergrad, working for an i bank to do anything else. Swimming olympic lifting in my spare time. No regrets. It worked out incredibly well
Dont waste your 20s
21 is to early. I have 30 and im virgin.
Great advice ,beautifully done .
Psycho Cybernetics is the book you are looking for. I'm rereading it right now. The O.G. personal development book. Everyone should read it
the only manosphere channels I watch are rich cooper, and rollo. Those are the only ones with a positive message, instead of being defeatist.