The Human Magnet Syndrome is EXTREMELY predictable. If you are unhappy in your relationship or marriage, and seek the romantic or sexual comfort of another person, it is VERY LIKELY it will be with another narcissist.
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Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT, is the owner of Self-Love Recovery Institute. He is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness and author. Ross is known globally for his expertise in codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment. His book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome” sold over 110,000 copies and are translated into nine languages. Ross’s YouTube channel has amassed over 17million video views and 185K subscribers. He is a keynote speaker and educator who has presented educational workshops in 30 States/70 cities and abroad. Ross has been regularly featured on national TV and radio.
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Thank you Dr. Rosenberg. I am so grateful that I found your videos about a week ago. I have tried for years to figure out why I am the way I am. Also why I keep ending up in toxic relationships that make me feel even worse about myself. All of your videos have been spot on. I grew up in a very abusive household and cannot remember ever having any self love. I try my best to go through life as a "normal" human being, mostly for my kids. I love them so much, and worry about them beyond belief. I don't want them to have the same kind of life I did growing up. I've been married to a narcissist for almost 9 years, and the loneliness is crippling. I have isolated myself for a while now and cannot seem to dig myself out of this hole. I try my best to take my kids to any school functions, or social events that I can, which is truly hard for me to do, but besides that I don't have what you would call a life. I've been so long without love or friendship that I stay falling in and out of deep depression. I don't know how to heal myself even though I have tried. I meditate, which seems to help depression symptoms but only for a little while. I am terrified that my kids can sense my depression and I am scared that I am going to cause them to have problems because of that. I just don't know how to fix it. I have been a stay at home mom for a long time now because of health issues, so I guess you can say I feel trapped in this marriage. I also worry about the affects it would have on my kids if I were to actually be able to go through with a divorce. Seems like a double edge sword. Sorry for the long post
I'm not having an affair with anyone…Ever…not my style, never has been never will be