The Human Magnet Syndrome is EXTREMELY predictable. If you are unhappy in your relationship or marriage, and seek the romantic or sexual comfort of another person, it is VERY LIKELY it will be with another narcissist.
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Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT, is the owner of Self-Love Recovery Institute. He is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness and author. Ross is known globally for his expertise in codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment. His book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome” sold over 110,000 copies and are translated into nine languages. Ross’s YouTube channel has amassed over 17million video views and 185K subscribers. He is a keynote speaker and educator who has presented educational workshops in 30 States/70 cities and abroad. Ross has been regularly featured on national TV and radio.
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Astonishing! You have precisely described me and my patterns over and over in your videos! I have to laugh out loud to hear you put your finger on so many things and the reasons for those things that I have done all my life… while also cringing! Yes! I do need therapy! Meanwhile I am successfully recovering from the addictions you speak of, one day at a time. Thank you Ross for your wisdom and willingness to share it with us all!
Loooove your work Ross!! Thank you 💕
BOOM! Truth and more truth! Thank you RR
What if it's an affair with another sld who is also in relationships with a nest full of narcs?
thanks Dr. Rosenberg for this information! It's life saving! God bless you!
Yikes! Thanks for the insights!
Its like you are telling my mom's story. When the affair came to light, she got attacked and fell into such a deep well of shame, that her schizofrenia developed and she has spent the last 30 years in psych hospitals.
Emotions are important and are supposed to be our compass….. BUT for so many people emotions are set to the wrong settings and they just lead to despair and dysfunction. SLDD symptoms….
I wasn't after of loneliness. I didn't think I could take care of myself, so I stayed 30 years. I didn't believe in myself or think I was strong enough to be alone.
O my gosh i need help ..