The Human Magnet Syndrome is EXTREMELY predictable. If you are unhappy in your relationship or marriage, and seek the romantic or sexual comfort of another person, it is VERY LIKELY it will be with another narcissist.
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Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT, is the owner of Self-Love Recovery Institute. He is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness and author. Ross is known globally for his expertise in codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment. His book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome” sold over 110,000 copies and are translated into nine languages. Ross’s YouTube channel has amassed over 17million video views and 185K subscribers. He is a keynote speaker and educator who has presented educational workshops in 30 States/70 cities and abroad. Ross has been regularly featured on national TV and radio.
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Wow. This is really informative. I always think decent men won’t like me… spot on! I haven’t listened to the whole thing yet.. halfway through. This is great
I even think my mum was jealous of me..I was late in learning to talk..don't think she interacted with me much..she said I was good n didn't need so much attention😳
Thank u
I have no being always with narcissist, so the theory of the magnets does always apply
Love this. Just wanted to say that I started counseling again and my counsellor has an approach very similar to yours. Your videos and books are a great addition to the work that I am doing with her. I already started doing some internal work and it’s amazing how the world around me is changing. It’s like putting on a new pairs of glasses 👓
After the last relationship that wrecked my life, I haven't dated in 30 years. Problem solved, at the cost of being alone. I'd rather be alone than go through another relationship with a malignant narc. I knew I was the problem, I chose the psycho men because my mother was a monster as was my grandmother and my dad a nice weakling. But I have not trusted myself to choose a man who isn't crazy again. I'm actually rarely lonely, have a full life and don't envy friends stuck in bad or boring relationships. But sometimes I'm sorry I never found a good man.
most victims all but not all…
I have two amazing parents that love me in all my choices, I’ve never had to earn their love or respect. , yet I became tangled with a narcissist.. this was because I didn’t have a healthy self love but has no connection to my parents.
I do respect your work & channel but there are exceptions
So grateful for your work. I am a recovering codependent, SLDD and now a self worth Life Coach. I was so SICK in my codependence and abusive marriage with my narcissistic husband (ex now) that I fell into an affair with another narcissist to tangle myself with and I finally hit rock bottom after 8 years of hell. It was such an addiction. Everything you are saying makes perfect sense to me. I knew none of it then. I had no idea why I could not get out of that tangled web. I didn't even know that it was my lack of self worth that kept making the same choices over and over. It is 15 years later and I am so grateful to have come out the other side (although I am still learning about myself every day). I am soaking all of this up as I just discovered your videos and will read your book. Thank you! I wonder how different my life would have been if YouTube existed when I was in the worst throws of my codependence?? I can only imagine. But I am no less grateful for who I have become through all of the hard work of getting here! There is hope!
I ‘v bean watching videos about narcissism almost 8 mnths now and i finally descover your chanel. Every video is perfectly corect. I am empath and probobly codependent, trying all my life to make everyone happy, it feels like that is my mission. I am so tired and drained. I want to heal and to be happy. How can i reach to you and do you offering one on one therapy online, i live in Arizona. Greetings to you