The Human Magnet Syndrome is EXTREMELY predictable. If you are unhappy in your relationship or marriage, and seek the romantic or sexual comfort of another person, it is VERY LIKELY it will be with another narcissist.
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Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT, is the owner of Self-Love Recovery Institute. He is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness and author. Ross is known globally for his expertise in codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment. His book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome” sold over 110,000 copies and are translated into nine languages. Ross’s YouTube channel has amassed over 17million video views and 185K subscribers. He is a keynote speaker and educator who has presented educational workshops in 30 States/70 cities and abroad. Ross has been regularly featured on national TV and radio.
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Wow it’s crazy cause I have mental illnesses and I feel like I have this because i never know y I stay with ppl that hurt me and I know that I’m done with . Thank you I just broke down bout this today . Go follow .
Thank you again! Valuable info.
Would you consider presenting seminars in Kelowna or Vancouver, BC?
you need to grieve the original relationship from childhood, just like any relationship….. get the first one out of your system first.
You are speaking the truth. So very true. Thank you Ross.
The fear of loneliness is so paralyzing. Being married and feeling lonely is so detrimental to ones mental health. Yet, it's difficult to end it after being married for 30 years. Unhappiness and fear are two evil components in a broken person, just saying.
Gaslit committed.
So, do you think that (let's just say for argument and variability, sake) about 50% of the murders, involving "Love Triangles", "Affairs", possible multiple divorces, BUT at some point, with the person they feel like they can't just "break up with" or "another divorce and my family said I'm out of the will"
Is or could be the "Motive" even though the Detective's will usually say "There was no motive, no reason for her/him to kill or try to hire someone to murder, when we live in 2019, and they could have just gotten a divorce"????
And that's another thing I'd like to mention that I keep forgetting, just because it is "2019" it doesn't mean that "ALL THE EVIL is gone "!!!
It just means that the evil went from parents beating their children but it was back in 1700's, so no school house to tell anyone what was happening, also instead of so much mind control and cheating and materialistic behavior that today, I personally believe, keeps the Narc fueled up for the most part, but back in the olden days, chances are, these people would have been the "wife beaters" or the "husband shamer's"
Just a thought
Your book was the first one I bought after I left this last covert narcissist of 6 years. Then I bought your second one. Then briefly dated an overt narcissist who right in front of me on the phone said I love you to another woman. It has taken me over 2 1/2 years to finally get into therapy. I finally said enough almost 2 months ago because listening to your work I suddenly realized omg I keep going back because I am an addict! The denial is frightening. Now almost 2 months of therapy it's slowly truly starting to sink in. I was in such withdrawal every time I tried once again to leave so I kept going back. The levels of loneliness I've experienced in these past 2 1/2 years were so unbearable. It's like you just cannot accept reality. Leaving therapy yesterday my therapist said "remember you need to love you because you are worthy" …just wow
Too bad you keep on mixing NPD with bpd 😕 those are different for a reason 🙃