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Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT, is the owner of Self-Love Recovery Institute. He is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness and author. Ross is known globally for his expertise in codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment. His book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome” sold over 110,000 copies and are translated into nine languages. Ross’s YouTube channel has amassed over 17million video views and 185K subscribers. He is a keynote speaker and educator who has presented educational workshops in 30 States/70 cities and abroad. Ross has been regularly featured on national TV and radio.
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i agree. i saw this coming, even though the truama bond was strong. i waited & walked quietly out, but the aftermath was/is
painful, any suggestions im 6 mos, no contact, but Im still struggling to really move on
Being a MGTOW for a while.
I've come to learn that being a loan wolf is better then being even around or near even a possible liability.
I just found you yesterday. You have changed how I see many of my relationships. thank you!!
It is so sad these people need help, and its available to them. Yet 99% of them will not seek it. If you try to get them to go for help they will tell you are crazy. Too often when they do seek help, they are missed-diagnoised as having bi-polar or depression and not receive the correct therapy. I can't imagine being so empty and needing love so much, but not being able to receive it or give it. Love is who we are, these people are so far removed from who they really are. I feel sorry for them, but have to stay away. I have a daughter who is narcissist, but has been misdiagnosed with different conditions. Therefore, she does not get the proper treatment.
My boyfriend well ex boyfriend now, is also clearly a narcissist he is textbook narcissist and I expect Malignant type. He is extremely controlling, verbally & emotionally/psychologically abusive. I broke up with him before and after 1 month of no contact he called admitting he was wrong and that he wanted to get help. I went back with him and of course he did not get therapy and things got worse. I caught him on a dating site and cheating with several different women.
I broke it off, he got really mad calling me crazy, jealous and insecure. Asking for me to let him explain, and when I said no, he said we were not married and he could do whatever he wants, despite the fact that we agreed to a manogamus relationship. Calmly I told him I was blocking him out of everything and not to contact me anymore. To which he replied that he didn't want me anyway. It's been a week now & so far he hasn't tried to contact me.
My ex boyfriend told me he was bullied as a child and both his parents beat him. He specifically recalled his father beating him up badly because he didnt get an A on a test. He now tries to make everything around him perfect including his surroundings and the people in his life.
The borderlanes are scared of them.They attract them all the time..😔😔😔😔I believe Narks hate them deep inside without a reason..
Ross…absolutely brilliant. Thank you so much
you have helped me get out , I'm on 18 months out from.my mother , this all happened to me everything you have taught. My brother triangulation me ..
.prepared for storm, Oberserved , didn't absorb, through many tears.and no reaction , no wrestling with pigs.finally my brother came to me and said I want you in my life.and I laid down boundaries. for the 1st time in 18 months , my brother and I had a cookout together with our families. I'm still no contact with my mother and my brother and I have survived at this point.you and Richard Granton have made my life so much better.Thank you so much for your knowledge .
It did not work. I was in full control of MY reality.