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What is Gaslighting?
Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation used to gain power over you by trying to make you believe you are crazy even when in reality you’re actually not at all.
If you are someone who second guesses yourself often, who doesn’t trust yourself, who frequently tries to get others to make your decisions for you, chances are at one point or another you have been gaslit.
In this video, we are going to talk in detail about what exactly gaslighting is and the 9 signs to look for to know whether or not you have or are being gaslit.
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This should also say to know if you’re the one gaslighting. I think accepting that you’re flawed and why you do certain things is key to growth.
Been the victim of gaslighting by pretty much everyone I've known. This is evil and painful s**t to do to another person.
Love your videos, thank you.
I'm totally scared of everything and mostly everyone. it's a scary world I'm a pathetic empath and I just want to die. never want to
So what an example of this be that they threatened to commit suicide if you say you're going to leave or break up and they absolutely refuse to acknowledge that you are not a couple anymore
This is so incredibly triggering.
Just realized i have 100% of these signs. Oh my God. I feel shattered. Why aren't we taught these things in school. Only when I started crazy-making myself to the point of a mental breakdown did i start searching for answers. Sigh. Long arduous journey ahead 🙁
So where's the line here with gaslighting? It's a form of manipulation. But is it real? In laying a claim that someone is gaslighting you, you yourself could be said to be gaslighting. Is it actually a helpful claim at getting at what's actually happening? For example, I could sense the distress in someone's emotional state and tell them I'm concerned for their wellbeing. But they could turn around and say no, they're ok and that they are worried about how concerned I am for them… and that's manipulative. So who is doing the gaslighting here—me, for projecting my concern onto them… or the other person for turning it back around on me and saying my concern for them is actually gaslighting in its own right? It's a chicken/egg kind of situation. Did I project my own worry/concern onto this other person when they were totally ok? And boom… now I'm gaslighting myself lol.
Wow…..I have 8 out of 9 signs
Thanks, Stay Real.
When I finally knew about this and understood it was what was happening to me, I started taping our conversations, if for nothing else, to prove to myself that i wasn’t going crazy. Worst form of abuse. It’s horrible.