Was I abused?Childhood PTSD Info And Test –
“Was I abused” , is a question that comes to us when we question whether our upbringing was normal or not.
It’s healthy to question this.
While developing a questionnaire to help my clients assess if their present problems are related to childhood growing up, I decided to make a brief video regarding childhood PTSD and the types of trauma family dysfunction.
The questions are designed to help explore childhood. It is not an APA approved clinical assessment and should not be treated as such. It’s something I came up with to explore childhood.
**Some of these questions can apply to other issues such as ADD, ADHD, spectrum disorders and others. A licensed PTSD therapist can further assist you in determining the root of present problems and diagnosis.
***”Sexually off” means the family was off sexually. Some examples –
-infidelity between parents
-sexually shut down or sexually repressed parents
-children exposed to or not protected from pornography
-not protecting children from adult sexual concepts
-exposure to sexual ideas too early
-abusive attitudes about gender “only whores dress like that”, “don’t be like your father ..be a man”
-overly sharing with children (poor boundaries)
-too little or too much affection
-parents who are shut down sexually (never re marry, never date post divorce)
-inability to talk about sex in a healthy way (explaining/ helping with menstration/puberty)
-overly religious (sex is bad).
-too touchy or inappropriate comments “wow…your friends are really developing”
I hope it is helpful.
Full questionnaire – www.patrickteahantherapy.com/?page_id=519
*If you are having emotional distress please utilize 911 or the Nat Suicide Hotline
1-800-273-8255
*I provide YouTube psych education. The channel is not a substitute for actual therapy. My services are strictly allocated for clients only.
**Please reach out to providers in your local area.
**If you are under 18, please seek services via your education system or caretakers.
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**Full Questionnaire**.
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Wait, so what now? Where do I go for therapy? I obviously can't tell my parents and since I'm 17 with no income where do I find someone to talk to?
I got 25 yes and 5 maybe . My mom was depressed I don't know if she still is or whatever cuz I went away to hostel for the past 2 years and honestly my head felt much better when I was there.
My mom would always do the stuff mentioned and after a few hours she would hug me and tell me she is sorry but even now after years I still can't forgive her? She tells me I'm being to much . She is no longer physically abusive but I still can't forget.
Am I being too much ? Am I in the wrong ?Can I get help from somewhere? Plz let me know if I can get help somehow.