Got this question the other day…
Hello Richard,
I’m sending you this message to ask you for advice from your life experience and the logic compiled after these years. I entered a relationship with a girl (23 years old) who suffered from anxiety disorder, without me knowing the existence of the disorder. We entered this relation after a year and a half with me trying to approach her in the most decent, logical, and gentle ways.
In the end I succeeded since I really, genuinely loved her back from our university days. I’m sure that this approaching period took longer than usual because of this disorder. Three months ago, and after my suspicions about her mental state, she used to wake up one morning every month or two, avoid me, not answer me, her life continues but she doesn’t want to hear my voice for 3 or 4 day. Then come back to approach me as if nothing has happened, and she loves me back more than before.
At that point I felt that I was the one who’s weird or who’s not getting it. So after a doctor’s help, I found about the disorder, asked her, she admitted.
After a week of her crying, saying that she didn’t want me to find out about her issue, I came back to her and told her that I’m ready to handle the task, to get acquainted and learn how to live with it because I decided, it was worth it, since when she was in her normal state, she IS the woman want!
The same day, I took her out for dinner, she did her crises again, I asked her many times to listen but no-good.
Three months later with not a word from both of us, I’m blocking her on every social media there is, but still I think of her every single day.
You might think that I’m an idiot for still being drowned, and you may be very right, you will see things from a different perspective because I may be blinded from the involvement of my feelings. But I really love her and she’s amazing when normal, utterly amazing. Yet she decided to leave and not contact me at all.
I’m sorry for the long passage, I’ve always liked your videos and you can check!! I promise the coming topics would be business related and more importantly ///M3 related!
Thank you in advance Richard, you can reply with any means you like, even a video on YouTube if you think others might benefit when it comes to dealing with mental people.
Have a great day from the other side of the pond!
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Guys can be just as crazy (also same goes for the bed thing…), it is annoying. Especially when they are diagnosed Borderline or BiPolar, don't do anything to help fix it or treat it; have high NPD qualities and then want to call you crazy. Lets just say…. it ends up making me crazy, and I start to understand why women end up cutting a man's d*ck off in his sleep…
Just sayin. Keep crazies as 'just sex' encounters, do NOT emotionally engage, do NOT touch the red button & abort the mission! ABORT THE MISSION. 😀
In my experience crazy men or women, friend or romantic partner… THEY ALWAYS turn mean and destructive and will bad mouth you. It might even take a few years, but eventually you'll have your turn. Stay away.
Yup. The crazy ones are the best sex. But I move on when I get tired of it, or they drop me when they realize I'm never going to marry them. Since it's never serious, it's a temporary problem. It seems your not a fan of the MGTOW philosophy, but it works great for me.
Back in the dating world after being married for 14 years. In my mid 40's so most women have teenage children. I must say I'm blown away at the number of kids with depression, anxiety, panic attacks. I'm even more blown away by how this generation of parents coddles and bubble wraps their kids. Eighteen year old kids were sent off to war not too long ago and now they can't cross the street w/o a fucking anxiety attack. Teach your kids to deal with life and own it! Motto – no dating women with kids for this hombre.
The crazy ones are the best ones in bed one hundred percent but I find that almost all girls are willing to be trained over time you take the time.