Got this question the other day…
Hello Richard,
I’m sending you this message to ask you for advice from your life experience and the logic compiled after these years. I entered a relationship with a girl (23 years old) who suffered from anxiety disorder, without me knowing the existence of the disorder. We entered this relation after a year and a half with me trying to approach her in the most decent, logical, and gentle ways.
In the end I succeeded since I really, genuinely loved her back from our university days. I’m sure that this approaching period took longer than usual because of this disorder. Three months ago, and after my suspicions about her mental state, she used to wake up one morning every month or two, avoid me, not answer me, her life continues but she doesn’t want to hear my voice for 3 or 4 day. Then come back to approach me as if nothing has happened, and she loves me back more than before.
At that point I felt that I was the one who’s weird or who’s not getting it. So after a doctor’s help, I found about the disorder, asked her, she admitted.
After a week of her crying, saying that she didn’t want me to find out about her issue, I came back to her and told her that I’m ready to handle the task, to get acquainted and learn how to live with it because I decided, it was worth it, since when she was in her normal state, she IS the woman want!
The same day, I took her out for dinner, she did her crises again, I asked her many times to listen but no-good.
Three months later with not a word from both of us, I’m blocking her on every social media there is, but still I think of her every single day.
You might think that I’m an idiot for still being drowned, and you may be very right, you will see things from a different perspective because I may be blinded from the involvement of my feelings. But I really love her and she’s amazing when normal, utterly amazing. Yet she decided to leave and not contact me at all.
I’m sorry for the long passage, I’ve always liked your videos and you can check!! I promise the coming topics would be business related and more importantly ///M3 related!
Thank you in advance Richard, you can reply with any means you like, even a video on YouTube if you think others might benefit when it comes to dealing with mental people.
Have a great day from the other side of the pond!
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If you lose your shit over a car you should not be giving any advice.
"Run Forest. Run!"
Nope. Craziness has nothing to do with sex quality. Completely unrelated.
I’ve dated my share of bipolar and anxiety driven women. Crazy girls the majority of the time are great in bed but it’s not worth being in a relationship with unless you’re looking for an emotional roller coaster ride. Love the content brother keep up the great work!
13 thumbs down equals 13 cunty crazy ex girlfriend broads.
A nut ass psycho chic is the reason why I started a business and wrote book to shake that shit off so it turned out awesome for me. Unfortunately crazy coach is the best ,sigh
Not my job to fix people so… yeah, you DON'T deal with it. That's how.
Anxiety and crazy are different. My girlfriend gets anxious but Id say shes only a level 5-crazy on the hot-crazy matrix, super grounded. I encourage her to eat well to manage mood swings via blood sugar and help calm her down when its exam season by talking her through things.
Crazy on the other hand, just run
Laina is awesome. =]
Thanks for the advice.
Pretty much OTTNO.
Crazy isn't worth it in the long run. It just isn't. Most guys will realize it eventually it just depends on if they can get out without serious damage being done.