Got this question the other day…
Hello Richard,
I’m sending you this message to ask you for advice from your life experience and the logic compiled after these years. I entered a relationship with a girl (23 years old) who suffered from anxiety disorder, without me knowing the existence of the disorder. We entered this relation after a year and a half with me trying to approach her in the most decent, logical, and gentle ways.
In the end I succeeded since I really, genuinely loved her back from our university days. I’m sure that this approaching period took longer than usual because of this disorder. Three months ago, and after my suspicions about her mental state, she used to wake up one morning every month or two, avoid me, not answer me, her life continues but she doesn’t want to hear my voice for 3 or 4 day. Then come back to approach me as if nothing has happened, and she loves me back more than before.
At that point I felt that I was the one who’s weird or who’s not getting it. So after a doctor’s help, I found about the disorder, asked her, she admitted.
After a week of her crying, saying that she didn’t want me to find out about her issue, I came back to her and told her that I’m ready to handle the task, to get acquainted and learn how to live with it because I decided, it was worth it, since when she was in her normal state, she IS the woman want!
The same day, I took her out for dinner, she did her crises again, I asked her many times to listen but no-good.
Three months later with not a word from both of us, I’m blocking her on every social media there is, but still I think of her every single day.
You might think that I’m an idiot for still being drowned, and you may be very right, you will see things from a different perspective because I may be blinded from the involvement of my feelings. But I really love her and she’s amazing when normal, utterly amazing. Yet she decided to leave and not contact me at all.
I’m sorry for the long passage, I’ve always liked your videos and you can check!! I promise the coming topics would be business related and more importantly ///M3 related!
Thank you in advance Richard, you can reply with any means you like, even a video on YouTube if you think others might benefit when it comes to dealing with mental people.
Have a great day from the other side of the pond!
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Bruh… if a chick doesn't have at least 3 personalities, she's gonna be {yawn} in bed! lolololol
I GOT FUCKED OVER, The chick i was with was crazy and a complete sociopath, it made me never wanna do anything to hurt her or be rough with her, making me almost pitty her, not giving her that dominance that she wanted bc i she said she had depressive symptoms, and this led her to lose interest, a month later she tells me shes on pills and never felt better, she became an even bigger bombshell and mentally stable, along with the sparks flying chemistry we had, however when she wanted to meet up with me after the split she she got a bf thats a boxer after we dated for a year. I feel like i got stuck with her when she was crazy, thinking shell never change and boom, some random dude gets the woman i actually loved and the mf is a boxer, she asked to stay friends and i told her what i felt and she chose him. Didnt burn the bridge just in case she wants to give it another shot or have a great night in the future. Never will i forget though.
the thumbnail looks crazy
Yep. The crazy ones are amazing in bed! That’s not enough to keep a logical person around though. Wrap it up gentlemen!
Been there done that!
Get the fk out if ya find she's like this. She will drain ya soul. I've found I've been talking to a woman in my blue pill days and she's said something an thought oh shit that's not good (like she will say something like she has issues cos she's been raped) at the time I didnt see the red flag for what it was. When this happens get out ASAP cos all that pain an hurt will targeted at you. Ya don't own her shit ya not a counsellor an any time 'fixing' her is best spent on yaself.
highway 401 😉
Just move on.
Very good advice
The juice was not worth the squeeze.. at least after a couple of glasses.