Got this question the other day…
Hello Richard,
I’m sending you this message to ask you for advice from your life experience and the logic compiled after these years. I entered a relationship with a girl (23 years old) who suffered from anxiety disorder, without me knowing the existence of the disorder. We entered this relation after a year and a half with me trying to approach her in the most decent, logical, and gentle ways.
In the end I succeeded since I really, genuinely loved her back from our university days. I’m sure that this approaching period took longer than usual because of this disorder. Three months ago, and after my suspicions about her mental state, she used to wake up one morning every month or two, avoid me, not answer me, her life continues but she doesn’t want to hear my voice for 3 or 4 day. Then come back to approach me as if nothing has happened, and she loves me back more than before.
At that point I felt that I was the one who’s weird or who’s not getting it. So after a doctor’s help, I found about the disorder, asked her, she admitted.
After a week of her crying, saying that she didn’t want me to find out about her issue, I came back to her and told her that I’m ready to handle the task, to get acquainted and learn how to live with it because I decided, it was worth it, since when she was in her normal state, she IS the woman want!
The same day, I took her out for dinner, she did her crises again, I asked her many times to listen but no-good.
Three months later with not a word from both of us, I’m blocking her on every social media there is, but still I think of her every single day.
You might think that I’m an idiot for still being drowned, and you may be very right, you will see things from a different perspective because I may be blinded from the involvement of my feelings. But I really love her and she’s amazing when normal, utterly amazing. Yet she decided to leave and not contact me at all.
I’m sorry for the long passage, I’ve always liked your videos and you can check!! I promise the coming topics would be business related and more importantly ///M3 related!
Thank you in advance Richard, you can reply with any means you like, even a video on YouTube if you think others might benefit when it comes to dealing with mental people.
Have a great day from the other side of the pond!
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Waste of fucking time ..run!!
I pump 12” and pump my juice never have to squeeze
Crazy in the head…crazy in the bed always…Had a borderline covert narcissist relationship for 1.5 years…wasn't worth the sex after a while as great as it was…
I dated a girl who suffered from chronic anxiety. Same same, when it was good it was great but we couldn’t problem solve for crap and she would shut down. I would be depressed with her and would lay in bed all day with occasional Netflix sex.. ugh miserable and I’m an active guy, not a dude that lives in bed.
It dawned on me when she tried to follow me into the military and they called her unfit for service…
If her mental issues were unsatisfactory for the military, why would my standard be lower?!
The crazy ones are better in bed. 100% It's about boundaries. Have clear boundaries for yourself and enforce them. Do that and the problem will take care of itself (she will basically explode).
If you find yourself with someone who is drama rich, neurotic, etc — That should be a red flag that you dont have enough going on with yourself — You dont value your time and peace of mind — If you want drama go on itunes and rent a Matt Damon film — trust me it will be much more interesting — and at the end of 2 hours its over —
Nope, crazy hasn't meant better in bed. Just crazy.
You can't reason with crazy in any way, shape or form.
Walk away and block forever.
No exceptions.
Don't worry, another crazy will come along in ten minutes.
My friend the juice is NEVER worth the squeeze with woman NEVER. Stop BSing yourself
My last gf had ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION, it was fucking exhausting. Multiple texts throughout the day, extreme clingy behavior, there was no words I could ever say to relieve her anxiety and it was constant roller coaster of everything being amazing to her being in tears anxious
Like rich said, when things were good they were REALLY GOOD, and when it was bad it was REALLY BAD
sex was really freaking good too. Yep textbook, Rich was totally right in the video