Lindsey Ellison is one of the best relationship coaches I know. She has superb background and skills with codependency/Self-Love Deficit Disorder and Narcissistic Abuse, among many other specialties. As the viewer will notice, talking with her is effortless and fun.
In this video we talk about various topics about healthy dating, setting healthy and effective boundaries, and building a self-love abundant future (opposite of Self-Love Deficiency).
We also talk about:
– Dating and relationships with a narcissist
– Human Magnet Syndrome
– Narcissistic addiction
– How to find healthy love after being with a narcissist
– Healthy boundaries in a relationship
– How to spot a narcissist and stop repeating the pattern
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Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT, is the owner of Self-Love Recovery Institute. He is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness and author. Ross is known globally for his expertise in codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment. His book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome” sold over 110,000 copies and are translated into nine languages. Ross’s YouTube channel has amassed over 17million video views and 185K subscribers. He is a keynote speaker and educator who has presented educational workshops in 30 States/70 cities and abroad. Ross has been regularly featured on national TV and radio.
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I can’t stop watching Dr. Ross’ videos! I’m so grateful for this one to for the both of you. I finally feel like I have a recovery based foundation and model that makes sense! I recently finalized my divorce from the narc. I am dating someone who respects me and made me time our time with the relationship. We have been dating for 1 year and it’s the first time I feel seen and heard. He doesn’t let me not feel when an emotion comes up. He holds the space I need to vent to him. Something I was never allowed to do with the narc.
We can all say positive things to ourselves but that won’t change the undesirable behavior. You have to feel the desire to change and feel like it can happen. Just repeating things is a false sense of hope and some people may think they can just say positive sayings without doing the work.
Love Lindsey"s narrative and interview. Ir would be great if you guys created more videos together. You guys make a great team.
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What a great video ! Wow.. Thank you
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Healthiest individuals do not mind boundaries at all, but someone who is full of shame will rage anytime a boundary is set.
When we always see the best in others we don't see the rest in others
Oh that`s a great point .. it`s an important point to own the fact we have our part to play in the relationship. (I gave my self away so many times !.).. I CHOSE to do that ! if we just blame others will always be the victim. It is true so many therapists/coaches just seem to be lingering on that one point over and over again ..'we are victims of monsters ! ' I was finding this approach just kept me in a dark place of feeling negative, angry and small. This has to be about me healing myself … not all about my ex. (He has already had too much attention from me!!:)) I wish I could find a therapist/coach as enlightened as you two ! I learned so much from this thank you so grateful to you both:)) xx
39:34 Lindsey is right. Unconditional love. Gosh I'm so not used to that.
36:30 My list is long, but I don't know why I don't meet people close to my list. Maybe I don't know where they're at.
34:08 Oh YES! Today he had RADAR to call me right when I got my withdrawal symptoms! YES I never feel truly SAFE (to TRUST him to protect me from harm).