THE GRAY ROCK METHOD DOESN’T WORK AND IS DANGEROUS. In this video Ross compares the Gray Rock method with his Observe Don’t Absorb technique, when dealing with a narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and/or detaching from a Human Magnet Syndrome formed dysfunctional relationship.
As explained in the video, the Gray Rock Method is a passive and manipulative method of detaching from a pathological narcissist. While it is theoretically effective, it is risky and practically unreliable. In this video you will find out why The Gray Rock Method simply doesn’t work, is often dangerous and too risky, and does nothing to solve the attraction patterns that brought the victim to the relationship to begin with.
Codependents or, what Rosenberg calls people with Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Self-Love Deficients/SLD’s), might escape using the Gray Rock Method, but they will be back, as it does nothing to get at the root problem, to find the source of why you are attracted to narcissists.
In the video, Ross explains why his “Observe Don’t Absorb” method is much more effective, reliable and safe.
Ross Rosenberg’s latest book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018) and his personal development, seminar, workshop and other services can be found at
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It's doesn't always happen that way. I am so much stronger and aware. I see it a mile away. Also
They are very social when it comes to supply. I say do what you have to in order to survive. Most importantly go and don't look back
The solution is Get Away
Grey rock worked great for me!
Get to the point quicker. Otherwise, great video.
I think you are splitting hairs, for whether it be gray rock or observe don't absorb – which in my view amount to more or less the same thing – so long as we exercise self-love/care and understand about having better boundaries, then we can become free of the peril. I think your prolonged or extended account here is an advert for your H .Magnet S. book. We simply don't need all that in order to break free. Pain relief does not need to be so monetized. In part, I think you are doing the listener a bit of a disservice. Ps. Perhaps, I should point out how the 'ignore the narcissist' (by words) approach, can work , as I discovered, may I? Simple binge watch recovery videos that fill you with determination, point 1. Point 2, It helps on the spiritual front to allay all fears and inhabit love, as a Christian. As a Christian we already have, from on high ie. delivered to us from on high, all the tools we need. ( Ephesians 6, ref.) If we don't have all this armour (spiritual) and love, then we just have to ask (pray), repent and believe! SO, I quote, when you say THE GRAY ROCK METHOD DOESN'T WORK AND IS DANGEROUS, unquote, no-one is imagining , surely, that that alone was ever the answer?
I HAD NO TIME TO HAVE MY LIFE COMPROMISED I TOLD THE GUY TO PISS OFF AND DUSTED MY FEET AND MOVED ON . HAD NO TIME TO BE A GRAY MOUSE . ITS MY LIFE . PS I DONT HAVE ANOTHER ASSHOLE I SMELL ONE FROM FAR . MY NEW BABY JUST CARES FOR ME THERE IS A WAY OUT . DONT BE SO NEGATIV JUST TO SELL YOUR BOOK
I love you heart for the parents and children at the airport!
THANK YOU DR. ROSENBERG! SO MUCH TO LEARN!
Thank you
So 10mins in, the grey rock method does work! of course it doesn't help you heal and unless you heal, you will attract another dirtbag. Really he shoudn't shoot down grey rock, instead he should emphasize that you need to do more than grey rock, which i thought was a given anyway.