I made this video from an interview I participated in, on a nationally syndicated radio show. Because I am not able to use identifying information of the show, I removed the interviewers voice. Still, he asked incredible questions (which are presented to the viewer). This is my best brief explanation on the diverse topic of gaslighting.
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Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT, is the owner of Self-Love Recovery Institute. He is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness and author. Ross is known globally for his expertise in codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment. His book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome” sold over 110,000 copies and are translated into nine languages. Ross’s YouTube channel has amassed over 17million video views and 185K subscribers. He is a keynote speaker and educator who has presented educational workshops in 30 States/70 cities and abroad. Ross has been regularly featured on national TV and radio.
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I've had gaslighting happen to me and I can honestly say that not all of this is totally accurate information. This video neglects to acknowledge the grey areas.
Negativity, criticism, complaining in the morning. Never positive, cheerful conversation in the morning. The more positive energy I have in the morning the more intense the opposite in response , has pounded me close to 6 feet into the ground .
Psychopaths are dangerous, violent, murderous criminals. The most severely extreme version of a sociopath.
Sociopaths have not yet crossed the line into violence and physical murder. They are smart enough to know that killing will end their game. They exist to feed from their selfish evil games. They need you alive to extract their sadistic supply from you.
The covert narcissist is right up in there, if not worse than both of these. All 3 have cold dead hearts, although they can put on a hell of an act as being the opposite of this. This, in my opinion; makes them the most fowl and vile creatures out there! They often work their evil while calling it "God's will". Or else an excessive pretending to be a dedicated follower of "the faith". It's all a show. A very convincing show that works well for them. They hide behind this image.
Can two codependants be together?
So if I work hard, take care of my kids and family. But I don't tolerate narcissistic women and I take my love away from that screaming harppie then I'm bad ? No its called being healthy.
This was good
If this never happened to me, I would not believe the description in this video. Gas lighters are psychopaths. The only solution is to leave them.
I worked for decades with adult survivors of child abuse. What Ive found is that gaslighters pull the same things that abusers of children do. They deny their reality and they harass them to the ends of the earth and to the end of time. Help can be found in support groups of adult survivors. Meanwhile, work on getting away from toxic ppl permanently.
You dont need these ppl. There are millions of ppl in the world.Choose from the best of them and make yourself a happy life.
Wow… I have been stuck in a relationship with someone who is like this… I thought he was a narcissistic sociopath….. But this describes him almost perfectly…. He has completely destroyed my life. I have lost almost everything. And yet people even now, old best friends, are convinced that everything is my fault and I treat him horribly.
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