This is a re-edited version of the video that was published on YouTube November 21, 2013. Before taking it down, it had more than 493,000 views.
From my book The Human Magnet Syndrome:
“Covert narcissists are masters of disguise — successful actors, humanitarians, politicians, clergy members, and even psychotherapists who are beloved and appreciated, but are secretly selfish, calculating, controlling, angry and vindictive. Covert narcissists create an illusion of selflessness while gaining from their elevated status. Although they share similar basic traits with the overt narcissist, i.e., the need for attention, affirmation, approval and recognition, they are stealthier about hiding their selfish and egocentric motives. Unlike the overt narcissist who parades his narcissism for all to see, the covert narcissist furtively hides his real motives and identity. These narcissists are able to trick others into believing they are honest, altruistic and empathetic individuals. They are successful at pretending to be a more likable version of themselves, knowing that if their true identity was uncovered, they would not be able to maintain the respect, status and prestige that they have so furtively garnered.”
Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC latest book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018) and his personal development, seminars, workshops, and other services can be found at his Self-Love Recovery Institute company,
Ross is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and author and is known globally for his expertise in codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment.
His book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome” sold over 120,000 copies and is translated into ten languages. Ross’s YouTube channel has amassed over 19 million video views and more than 200K subscribers. He is a keynote speaker and educator who has presented educational workshops in 30 States/70 cities and abroad. Ross has been regularly featured on national TV and radio.
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How I wish Sha’nann Watts had known this information to be able to recognize Chris Watts for the monster he was before she married him or at least before she had children with him.
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Thank you so much for being obedient and sharing. You and many others have open my eyes to realize The Holy Spirit did reveal the narcissistic, Jezebel demons within my husband and finally fleed after 21 year's. Thank you again for the confirmation. Jesus is our Hope and The Holy Spirit is our counselor. You are an amazing tool for Yashua. Thank you again. May God bless you and keep you and may His face shine upon you and your family. Amen
They are playing nice outside or in other people but they are exploitative, manipulative controller to their family member Envious jealous and cunning to their own family especially to their siblings. They will not let you become successful and happy
Met someone like this recently and she screams from the roof top that she's a christian. I got close enough to see that she's the biggest hypocrite you'd ever want to meet. It was weird listening to her judge everyone then do the exact thing she judged people for. Needless to say we no longer speak.
Mine was a fireman for 30 years, a hero to many in my town. Yeah right……more like a clever, cheating, lying jerk.
My ex of 5 years was definitely one..I'm glad it's over. Not going back with her…I'm free
Best description ever