This is a re-edited version of the video that was published on YouTube November 21, 2013. Before taking it down, it had more than 493,000 views.
From my book The Human Magnet Syndrome:
“Covert narcissists are masters of disguise — successful actors, humanitarians, politicians, clergy members, and even psychotherapists who are beloved and appreciated, but are secretly selfish, calculating, controlling, angry and vindictive. Covert narcissists create an illusion of selflessness while gaining from their elevated status. Although they share similar basic traits with the overt narcissist, i.e., the need for attention, affirmation, approval and recognition, they are stealthier about hiding their selfish and egocentric motives. Unlike the overt narcissist who parades his narcissism for all to see, the covert narcissist furtively hides his real motives and identity. These narcissists are able to trick others into believing they are honest, altruistic and empathetic individuals. They are successful at pretending to be a more likable version of themselves, knowing that if their true identity was uncovered, they would not be able to maintain the respect, status and prestige that they have so furtively garnered.”
Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC latest book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018) and his personal development, seminars, workshops, and other services can be found at his Self-Love Recovery Institute company,
Ross is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and author and is known globally for his expertise in codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment.
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They are not a wolf in sheep’s clothing they are an extraterrestrial 👽 in a human meat suit like in the movie Cocoon.
This is true with narcissist “friends” too. Cut them out as soon as you see the first signs of narcissism. You will be the most loyal fried to them and they will repay you with a smear campaign and sabotage your relationships behind your back. All because of their jealousy and envy toward you. Disgusting creatures all of them. Please cut them all from your life ASAP you are worth too much ❤️
Do they sometimes have a martyr complex… suffering so much for all their acts of “goodness” and “‘sacrifice?”
Fantastic Explanation!Everything is true, you are right!👍👏🙏❤️
Would a covert Narcissist psychotherapist know he was one?
What are the chances they are self deluded if they specialise in narcissm?
And would they likely project it onto clients?
Well…sounds like my crazy brother. He had my whole family fooled.
tbh. Im not sure if im a covert narcissist or not.
oh wow, gabbie hanna hello.
This sounds like every politician ever