In this video, I explain the very complicated and dangerous undertaking of protecting yourself when you uncover/unmask a covert narcissist and the dysfunctional relationship they trick you into. Because of their manipulative nature and the fact that they are often respected and even adored by others, taking them on directly is big mistake.
Ross Rosenberg’s latest book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018) and his personal development, seminar, workshop and other services can be found at or
Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT, is the owner of Self-Love Recovery Institute. He is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness and author. Ross is known globally for his expertise in codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment. His book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome” sold over 110,000 copies and are translated into nine languages. Ross’s YouTube channel has amassed over 17million video views and 185K subscribers. He is a keynote speaker and educator who has presented educational workshops in 30 States/70 cities and abroad. Ross has been regularly featured on national TV and radio.
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Often, projection is when claiming the other is a narcissist. So first take a look in the mirror.
They are not much different from a sadistic psychopathic serial killer. They ….hopefully, just stop before the killing.
Thank you Ross.
November 13, 2020: Two words: Ben Affleck
Don't you think if a person has been hurt enough and they want to pay back the narcissist for being such a terrible person don't you think it would be best to wait a year when everything has settled down? Or do you think it's best just to leave it and walk away I have somebody that is going through something right now and she's pissed off big time and she wants to get revenge, and I told her the only way you can get revengeful is by healing yourself right and she still doesn't want to listen she said she's going to wait a year
Best video I’ve ever heard on NARCS
GET OUT PEOPLE- mine almost killed me! It took a physical attack for me to finally leave. Don’t let it go that far.
Ross is wise. Confrontation is SO dangerous. You will end up losing everything: your health, your sanity and your livelihood. Run. FAST.
How can I get hold of Ross.. I need advise.. please help and assist..
What if I’m the narcissist
This is so true. Narcissists, when called out, will verbally attack back in a evil innuendo way. They use people (family/friends) known as their flying monkeys by turning them against you with lies and falsehoods. They listen to and gossip your every word, whether good or bad, in order to figure out a way to mirror it back at you. It's an absolute no win. You have to remove yourself from their toxic environment to protect yourself. They seem to thrive on gossip and anger and want you to defend yourself by becoming angry too. It's a total waste of precious time.